5 Reasons to Question Monogamy at Elephant Journal

Let’s look at both monogamy and commitment with fresh eyes and consider five reasons to question both cultural ideas. Let’s not oversimplify the deceit exemplified by Ashley Madison. Widespread cheating suggests sexual impulses exist beyond monogamy. Many arguments against freer sexuality provoke fear and even persecution exemplified in slut shaming, honor killings and LGBT harassment. …

Surprising Suppository – Self Deception

Self deception can be agonizing. Most of us have witnessed ourselves or others thinking about some event and creating additional meaning based on our beliefs or prejudice. The significance we add can induce any emotion and be very compelling.  I will give some brief examples and let them stand for countless others. Then expose the …

Religion Frightening Children – A Journey Beyond Belief

In remnants left behind by a child, I came across a bookmark made for my father when I probably six years old. Green construction paper cut into a crude arrow scrawled with a cross on one side and the words Happy Fathers Day. Opposite a picture of a white Anglo-Saxon Jesus adorned the strip along …

Risky Sexual Restraint

A consideration of repressed desire and how it bursts out into unsafe sexual extremes. Using real life examples and metaphor, sexual responsibility gets defined beyond the limits of tradition. When we have been held back sexually the desire to feel more alive often (unintentionally) leads to more restraint. Like a caged animal that bursts out …

Slane Girl and Sex as a Weapon

My heart to you Slane Girl. Women are often treated badly when something wild becomes public. Look through the telescope revealing that custom isn’t the center of the universe. If you want a more juicy life, find safe and conscious participants. If on the contrary, the partners are more or less traditional-hypocrites (those words often run together) …

Lasting Love: The Secret To Long-Term Relationships

Lasting Love: The Secret To Long-Term Relationships The problem with illusions will always be that disillusionment follows them like a shadow. In order to keep the dream intact we must turn away from reality. Two young friends in India go of to make their fortunes away from their small village. In the course of years …

Writeonwater: Let’s correct this error with a large unfounded assumption. –>

  Florida Mom Rebeca Seitz Writes Angry Blog Post After Seeing ‘Softcore Porn’ Ad On Morning TV “Let’s correct this error [Rebeca] with a large unfounded assumption.–> “Sex is a beautiful exquisite gift between two people who are married.” It is a beautiful gift for any number of mature people who can enjoy it without …